Healthy Lifestyle
Enhance your personal lifestyle! You can do so much for your own health and wellbeing. In the following you will find detailed information on various health and wellness topics.
But then reality kicks in. Little by little we give the best of us to that what society calls for: Perfection. We feel that we have to be perfect. 24/7. In our job we have to be successful, creative and a fun colleague. We have to be a loving parent, a sexy partner and a wonderful entertaining friend. And in between meetings, emails, doing homework with our kids and cooking dinner for our friends, we have to manage our yoga class and get to the hairdresser – because we also want to be healthy and beautiful!
The only problem with this kind of lifestyle is that it is not possible. We cannot be 110% all the time. At a certain stage you just feel exhausted. And this exhaustion is so deep that sleeping in on the weekends doesn’t do the trick anymore. The burnout syndrome is a state of physical and/or emotional long-term exhaustion and one of the top illnesses of modern times.
A burnout is not a clean cut medical disease. It can come out of nowhere and the reasons are quite versatile – too much work with too little tribute from your superiors or colleagues, emotional stress, discrepancy between your achievements and your own – far too high – expectations and many more. In a nutshell a burnout results out of continuous excessive demands.
A lot of people do not even know that they even have a serious health issue. Often, the signs as described above are classified as "personal weaknesses". This is very harsh. We have to accept the fact that we are "only" human. Everybody is unique and very different. The key is to find your own pace. Love yourself the way you are in all your ups and downs. This is you. Your own true self. We have to honor ourselves for our strength as well as our weaknesses, as both are part of what we are.
Enjoy your live! We need to learn to make conscious decisions for ourselves – not for others – just for us, to make life even more enjoyable. The world won’t end just because you turn off your mobile for a couple of hours. Your boss won’t sack you, just because you tell him very openly that you want to work less. And if he or she does, than this may be your perfect excuse to change your work life completely. Your friends will still be your friends, even if you order Pizza from the delivery store next door instead of preparing a full meal by yourself.
Reduce your stress and keep the freshness of a sunny early morning! Paul Linder, General Manager of renowned Chiva-Som in Thailand, stresses that for the prevention of a burnout you should start the day with relaxing rituals and adopt healthy eating, exercising and sleeping habits. You should set boundaries for yourself, nourish your creative side and learn strategies how to manage your stress. Chiva-Som is one of the top health and healing destinations worldwide. At this beautiful resort it is about learning to live, enjoy and appreciate every moment which creates a personal path to a balanced lifestyle. Amongst others, Chiva-Som provides an Inner Peace Retreat for those dealing with excessive stress or burnout.
"It is important to take your burnout very seriously", says Mr. Linder. "Firstly, try to slow down or take a break from your work load, activities or any commitments. Give more time for you to heal, rest and relax or just simply learn how to breathe. Secondly, get support; turn to your loved ones for support by sharing your feeling with another person which can help you to relieve some of the burden. Lastly, reevaluate your goals and priorities. Take time to think about your hopes, goals, dreams and what is really important to you."
How did you sleep last night? – this is usually the first question your loved ones ask you in the morning. Sleep is vitally important for our overall wellbeing. It guides our reasoning, our memory and our health; we spend approximately one third of our life in this very special condition; and generally we don’t think too much about it.
As sleeping is relaxing and recharging our body, also dreaming is both relaxing and activating our mind. According to C.G. Jung, dreams are a way of communicating with the unconscious. They aim to guide you, when you are awake and often offer a solution to an issue bothering your mind.
Our tip for further reading: Healing Night by Rubin R. Naiman, Syren Book Company.
Sleeping well is a very fragile construct which consists of many little parts that have to fit together in order to provide your exhausted body and mind with this so urgently needed rest. If this construct is shaky or if a vital part is missing, sleep will either not come at all, far too late or we wake up in the middle of the night being victims of our thoughts and our bodily functions.
According to clinical psychologist Dr Rubin R Naiman, the lack of sleep is a severe lifestyle issue and has a direct impact on our physical, spiritual and emotional health. Studies show that there is a direct link between lack of sleep and obesity. Lack of sleep gives a spike in insulin production which may cause diabetes. Further he states that "the chronic loss of dreaming may be the most critically overlooked factor in clinical depression".
Movement promotes the reduction of stress hormones and increases the production of endorphins, knows Dr. Wanner. Basically, with movement that is fun, we gain more energy for our everyday lives.
Meditation is a good way of calming your brain and your thoughts and in the long term it will help you to control various forms of anxiety that hinder your sleep. But also physical activity will help you to calm down and get physically tired. Limiting caffeine and alcohol are well known strategies but often forgotten. Also heavy food in the evening may hamper your body rest completely.
Develop a routine before going to bed to let your body know that it is time. Take your time and don’t rush your body to find sleep – have a herbal tea before or read a few pages in your book for example. For others a hot bath might be the key.
Dr Rubin R Naiman coined the term Deep Green SleepTM, whereby “Deep” refers to the quality of our descent into sleep and “Green” to the optimal sleep environment. Reduce sleep smog in your room by taking care of a good mattress and a “green” bedding utilizing organic cotton, wool and natural latex. Critical and very do-able: Let fresh air into your bedroom! Furthermore, common house plants have been shown to function as efficient air filters (top of the range: Areca palm, Lady palm, Bamboo palm, and Rubber plant).
“Natural sleep onset requires a willingness to spend a few moments alone with ourselves in the dark.”
– Dr. Rubin Naiman
Fitness Concept
For our health and our general state of feeling well, the fitness of our body and our mind is essential. Science shows that targeted fitness training can decrease the risk of heart attacks and obesity.
In our today’s hectic and often crazy lifestyle’s, it is interesting to know that regular exercise can increase the capacity for concentration and learning. People who actively deal with the issue of fitness are healthier and live statistically longer. Physical activity as well as a healthy, balanced and nutritious high-fibre diet are vital for both body and mind.
Self-awareness is the key. It's about feeling, breathing, listening, and exploring. It's accepting, embracing and healing. We are the master of our own reality. If you wish, holistic fitness can be an essential part of this reality. It is not about the goal of being “fit”, but rather a lifelong journey of learning to listen to you bodily needs.
Holistic fitness is a means to improve your body, mind and health – from the inside out.
Movement promotes the reduction of stress hormones and increases the production of endorphins, knows Dr. Wanner. Basically, with movement that is fun, we gain more energy for our everyday lives.
But even more important, this little home trainer is highly effective in lifting your mood, waking you up, balancing your mind and detoxifying your body (lymphatic drainage). Healing Hotels of the World suggests: every morning 15 minutes and you will get fit and stay young so easily!
STRESS! It is one of the buzzwords of the 21st century. According to the World Health Organization (WHO) it is the greatest health challenge of this century.
Stress – Something we create ourselves?
In fact, stress is a very personal experience and therefore a quite subjective matter. What is perceived as stressful for one person may have little effects or even be pleasurable for others. A highly recognized expert in the field, Hans Selye, M.D., defined the term “stress” as it is used nowadays in 1936 as "the non-specific response of the body to any demand for CHANGE".
“…stress is something that we can control! It is a cycle of sense perceptions, thoughts, feelings and manifestations – a one way road to disaster if not stopped, made aware of and being treated. Stress is the result of sensory perceived threats to our everyday feeling and thinking patterns of comfort and security. It can be caused physically (e.g. crime, abuse, drugs, injury, sex problems), psychologically (e.g. sorrow feelings, loss of loved ones) or mentally (e.g. disputes with people around us).
Stress appears when the gap widens between what we factually can do and what we think and feel we could or should do. We simply lose control.”
Looking back at Mr. Selye’s definition, the keyword here is CHANGE. The very essence of life is about change. We often long for change, but what if it actually knocks on our door? As outlined by Karin Sole and Juergen Klein, stress is when we freeze; holding on to everything we have and know is safe. Change may ask us to let go of something that we perceive as safe and holds open possibilities for something new. We just have to embrace this freedom and let go. And if we dare to cross the threshold, abundance, beauty, and happiness are waiting for us. However, we are not always ready to embrace life in this way and the body resorts to sending out the “stress” message, which is essentially saying: I am under attack, I am threatened!
All of us react to stress differently. Physically it may cause digestive disorders, headaches, cold or sweaty hands, colds or infections, heartburn, nausea, diarrhea, depression, insomnia, difficulty concentrating, anxiety and many more. Emotionally we may lose the capacity to feel “big feelings” and be in the moment, instead we have a tendency to get upset or worry. Intellectually we may find it difficult to learn new things and develop new perspectives. And spiritually we may feel disconnected to the beauty of life.
The probably most important thing in dealing with stress is to stop past conditioning and stay in the NOW – keep your focus:
• Learn more about yourself and your body to detect early signs of stress and to keep it under control.
• Physical focus: go out and do physical activity to release the pressure (e.g. Yoga or running).
• Psychological focus: get counseling referring to past fears, how they are triggered and how to create an awareness to stop them. Talk about your concerns and worries with someone you trust. Don’t swallow your feelings.
• Mental focus: guided concentration and meditation exercises, lectures and material about health and wellbeing. Keep your joy in life. Go out and have fun and forget about the stresses of your life for some time. And when you return to them, they even might be gone.
• This is probably the most important point: Take care of yourself and balance your life! Get enough rest, your personal time out and eat well. Your body deserves it.
A Healing Retreat is a great opportunity to learn how to make wise choices when faced with change. It takes one out of one’s usual “stressful” environment into a place where it is all about connecting with one’s self. Step by step we become aware of the choices we have, how we can respond to life’s circumstances in such a way that we experience freedom and ease.
To live a vibrant life, full of joy and vitality, there are many things we can do to enhance the body’s inherent wellbeing. A healthy and strong immune system is paramount. It gives you the energy you like to have in your life and it helps you to avoid, relief or shorten diseases.
The Immune System
The immune system – the body’s own defense system – consist of proteins, cells, organs and tissues, which interact in a complex network and disorders in this system may result in disease. Since microbes can penetrate the body and cause dysfunctions at any time, the human immune system is constantly challenged by environmental influences. There are several ways to strengthen your immune system naturally, and thus, to protect your most valuable habitat.
The avoidance of chronic stress is crucial, as it may wear down the immune system and increase your vulnerability to illness. Altered mood states such as depression, anxiety and panic are harmful to the body in many ways. Secondary symptoms such as fatigue, difficulties with memory and concentration, aches and pains and problems with sleep are common in people with mood disorders, which also harm the immune system. In order to reduce stress and anxiety, try to incorporate relaxation techniques, such as Yoga, meditation, Tai Chi or deep breathing in your daily routine. This calms your body and mind and helps you to get rid of ‘toxic thoughts’.
Exercise
Especially cardio training, as well as regular inurement, such as sauna or kneippism, are great methods to enhance the immune function.
Working out regularly mobilises the antibody response as well as your T cells, a type of white blood cell known to guard the body against infection. Exercise can also improve your mental well being, it can even help relieve mild to moderate degrees of depression and anxiety.
Further, you can modify your diet by choosing healthy fats, such as the omega-3 fatty acids available in oily fish, over saturated fats, found in red meat and dairy products. For an additional immune boost, try adding garlic, which has virus-fighting and bacteria-killing properties, and ginger, a natural anti-inflammatory, to your meals on a regular basis.
Obviously, drinking plenty of water is paramount, as it helps you to fend off infection by flushing out your system. Try to stay away from sugary beverages and alcohol.
...BLISS IS THE WELLING UP OF THE ENERGY OF THE
TRANSCENDENT WISDOM WITHIN YOU.”
JOSEPH CAMPBELL
But most of us make one major mistake. We tend to think that we need someone’s love in order to live a happy life. However, love comes from within. We can only feel love for other people when we love ourselves, as it’s this love that shines in us and thus can be felt by others.
“[This] was in fact the best and most wonderful experience for us to go through because we are able to view the opposite end of the spectrum. The polarities of our very existence! The sad times as opposed to happy times, hate instead of love, bad instead of good, down instead of up […]. These polarities help us to discover and decide what we truly want for ourselves. When we learn that these polarities are all part of our future happiness, we can move through our unhappy times quicker, with more understanding and love and find a peaceful mind more quickly.”
Or as Helen Keller put it: “We could never learn to be brave and patient if there was only joy in the world.”
We all tend to get lost in ideas, thoughts and self-created concepts of life. How do we reclaim that hidden wisdom? The crux is to concentrate on your inner self. You may want to call it “intuition” or “gut feeling”. This is what guides you and knows what you actually want. Trust this feeling and listen to yourself!
God is at home,
it’s we
who have gone out
for a walk.
Meister Eckhart
Make time for yourself to build up your positive experiences and get back into the habit of enjoying the moment!
